Another Heart Update

Liam went in for his three month cardiologist appointment today.  It was a good check-up.  The main purpose for this visit was to check the fluid around his heart, which has been there since January.  Although he still has a little fluid remaining, the amount has decreased.  This means his body is healing itself and medication is not needed.  This is good news.
The nurse also checked the hole in his heart.  It remains the same size.  There is a chance that his body could heal this by the age of four, which would be wonderful.  However, the doctor said that since it is such a small hole, we won't have to fix it surgically even if it stays open.  It is a very minimal hole and Liam's heart is not leaking too much for it to be a concern.  We will check the other two heart problems (aorta and valve) at our next check-up, but from today's echocardiogram they look to be stable.  Overall, it was a good visit.  Liam is getting so good at sitting still and letting the nurses get all the pictures and videos they need.  The nurses are always so smitten with him - he is such a charmer!  I can't help but think that he is leaving quite an impression on the staff there.

Thank You

The words thank you don't quite seem powerful enough to convey the gratitude I have for the outpouring of love shown this weekend.  I am overwhelmed!  Our garage sale was a success in so many ways.  Many people donated items.  The yard looked more like a church rummage sale than just a garage sale.  We had many large items, some of which, were donated by people who do not know us personally, but heard about what we are doing and wanted to help.

I was also impressed with how many people offered to help set-up and organize the event.  Our dear friends, the Castens, offered their home, which was more centrally located.  Only true friends open their homes and arrange their lives to host such a big event.  We are so grateful for their generosity.  Our other great friends, the Zielinkis, who were the inspiration behind the whole event, helped organize things ahead of time, and make sure everyone knew what to do.  Sara put things on Craigslist, Phil was sweet enough to make dinner for us Friday night, and their five daughters were so helpful loading the Goodwill truck at the end.  Sara was also the "boss" during the sale, for which I am so thankful.  I would have been lost without her.  Our friend Deb helped by watching Liam on Friday morning.  Many other dear friends helped arrange and price things Thursday night and work the sale on Friday. 

We had a great turn-out of shoppers.  A couple church members showed up to show their support.  Some people made donations in addition to their purchases.  It is a humbling experience to accept money from people, but also so encouraging to know that so many care about our daughter already.  One couple gave us a $100 donation on Friday, which was also the day their father/father-in-law passed away.  They shopped the sale right after returning from the nursing home and saying their good-byes.  Isn't it amazing how people's lives intersect in the midst of sorrow and joy?  It just reminds me that the Lord gives and takes away - blessed be the name of the Lord.  This was emotional for me as it reminded me what our group of friends was doing on June 8th four years ago.  We were gathered for the funeral service for Christopher and Connor.  They helped us through that terrible time of grief and now have helped us in our time of joy and excitement.  Look how much has changed since that sad summer day - God has brought joy from the ashes.

Our summer of fundraising is off to a good start.  We still have a lot more to raise, but are encouraged that since God has called us to do this, He will also provide the funds we need.  God is so good!

Help Wanted

Now that our paperwork for our daughter's adoption is under way, we need to focus on raising funds to bring our little lady home.  We are having our first fundraiser on June 8th-9th and we would love your help.  You can help in the following ways...


1. Donate items to the garage sale -
Items can be dropped off at the Castens' house anytime after 5pm on Thursday, June 7th.
     3101 Whitepine Dr.
     New Haven, IN 46774          

If you have any larger items, please e-mail me a list ahead of time, so we can put them on Craigslist.  We will also list children's clothing sizes on Craigslist.  We also need plastic shopping bags for customers.

2. Help price items ahead of time - 

We will begin pricing items on Thursday evening at 5pm.  Please e-mail me if you can help out that evening.

3. Work the garage sale - 

If you can help out for an hour or two, or even the whole day, we would love to have your help and enjoy some time of fellowship.  The garage sale hours are 8-5 on Friday and 8-12 on Saturday.  Please send me an e-mail if you would like to help work.

4.  Spread the word and stop by to shop -

Please tell your friends and family members about the sale and encourage them to stop by.  

We will be selling balloons for the children for 25cents and we will have some great items!

5. Pray for a successful event -

Many of you have expressed that you are already praying for our daughter and for the whole adoption process and we sincerely thank you!  We know God is able to immeasurably more than we could ever imagine (Ephesians 3:20).

If you have any questions, or would like to help out in any way, please e-mail me at - tiffanyherman11281@yahoo.com.

Tiffany Graduated... Almost

Tiffany has been working hard to finish her Masters in Special Education.  She wrote her thesis/special project over the last school year.  Aside from taking a summer class, she is finished.  The hard part is over, and so far she has a 4.0 grade point average.  She will officially graduate in June, but attended the Alumni Dinner to celebrate with her fellow classmates.

All dressed up and ready to celebrate!

Tiffany with her fellow classmates and advisor.

The Special Education Graduate Students from 2011-2012 & 2 Professors

Dream Come True

I have always thought I would have an Asian daughter.  Growing up, I always thought I would adopt some day and that I would get a daughter from an Asian country.  I assumed that my daughter would be from Korea.  My Godparents adopted three children from Korea.  We used to spend a couple weeks with them every summer, and I vividly remember meeting each child shortly after they arrived home and marveling at how beautiful they were.  I was fascinated with their eyes, hair, and skin color.  Time went on, and I still had the feeling I would adopt an Asian daughter some day, but it wasn't in my immediate plans.  I know I expressed this thought to Dave while we were still dating and he was open to the idea, but also was not anxious to pursue it right away.  When we started our initial adoption process (2009), we applied for the Korea program, but were put on a waiting list.  When the list opened up and finally allowed us into the program, we received Liam and had to take our names off the list.  When Liam turned 1 we tried to go back on the list and were once again put on a waiting list.  We were told in January of 2012 that the list would remain closed and we should seek another route.  I was sad and thought that our dreams of getting our daughter would not come true.  By this point I had a strong feeling that I just couldn't shake.  I felt like I had a daughter waiting for me and I had to get to her.  I'm sure I seemed like a woman obsessed.  I thought about it all the time, brought it up to Dave constantly, and prayed non-stop.  Finally, through guidance of friends and family and a lot of prayer, we were directed in another way.  We had heard that adopting a healthy girl from China would take 5 years, which didn't seem to fit with our family plan.  Then, we heard about a program that places children with a special need, most of which are minor/correctable health concerns.  We would not have felt prepared to handle a child with such a condition when we started the process in 2009.  However, going through the experiences we have with Liam's heart condition, we realized that we are perfectly suited for a girl with one of these issues.  At times it seems scary, but we know God will give us the daughter we are meant to have.  Looking back, we can see God preparing us along the way through every closed door, nudge, and circumstance.
   
In addition to wanting an Asian daughter I also knew I wanted a son first.  This was out of my control, but God worked that out for us.  Liam was meant to be our son all along!  I am also happy we received a newborn first, so we could learn all the milestones a baby-toddler needs to go through.  Liam has a strong personality, but is also sweet and gentle with younger children.  I know he will be a great big brother.


The formation of our family, although different from what I had planned, is exactly the way God designed it to be.  He knew all along who our children would be, when they would arrive, where they would come from, and how we would get them.  Knowing that He is in control and directing every path gives us comfort.  Look at what great work He does!

We're Expecting!

We are proud to announce that our daughter is on her way.  Our little lady should be joining our family next summer from half a world away.  Our daughter is being adopted from China.  After a great deal of prayer, we feel called to take a leap of faith and adopt internationally. 

"And who knows but that you have come to your position for such a time as this?” Ester 4:14

Many doors have opened, and others have closed, which has lead us to where we are.  Our experiences as a family have also prepared us and opened our hearts.  We are once again trusting God's timing and plan and relying on him to take care of all the details concerning this adoption.  We are thrilled that Liam will have a sibling, but especially an adopted sibling.


The entire process "should" take between 12-15 months and our daughter will most likely be between 10-15 months old when she comes home.  We are adopting a special needs child, which means she will most likely have a minor or correctable health concern, such as a heart condition (similar to Liam's) or a cleft lip & palate.  Because this process is quick (compared to other adoptions) our daughter may have already been conceived, if not born.  Even though we have not received a referral (her picture and information), we love her!  We are praying for her - that God would hold her in his arms until we can.  We are also praying for her birthmother - with thanksgiving for her choice of life for her daughter - and that God would direct her path.


We are in the process of updating our homestudy to China's specifications, which we hope to have done in May, and are starting our I-800.  This summer I will be going into fundraising mode.  Our first fundraiser, a garage sale, has already been scheduled for June 8th-9th (more information to come).  We still have a lot of work, and paperwork ahead of us, but are very excited to be adding to our family.


Please keep us in your prayers as we embark on this adventure.  It is truly by God's grace that  our family is being blessed.  We have learned that nothing is our own, but entrusted to us from God.  We are so thankful he is entrusting another child to us and enlarging our family. 

"Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory forever and ever! Amen." 

Ephesians 3:20-21 

Verona's Baptism

Our beautiful niece and Goddaughter was baptized on Sunday, April 15th. Welcome to God's family Verona!