Goodbye Facebook

The Hermans are going to step away from Facebook for a while.  The other day we were talking about ways to strengthen our marriage.  Don't be alarmed.  Our marriage is not in jeopardy and we are not worried about it failing.  However, we want to be sure we are investing completely in our marriage, especially since the dynamic will be changing soon as we add a little girl to the picture.  Someone told us that a strong marriage is the best thing to bring with us to China.  Our lives have been busy!  Dave and I pour a great deal of energy into work and Liam.  Lately, we have been giving each other whatever is left.  The other night, after putting Liam to bed, we decided to play a board game.  We used to do that all the time as newlyweds.  We couldn't afford cable and didn't have internet, so we often played card or board games.  It was so much fun to sit and talk and just be together.  Most nights, we turn on the TV, use the IPad or laptop, and zone out.  Technology consumes way too much of our lives.  In an effort to feel connected with all those around us, we have become disconnected with each other.  I would rather check on the status of Dave's day before going to bed than the status of others.  We will most likely be back on Facebook sometime in the near future.  We want to keep our friends and family updated on what's going on with us, especially when we make our trip to China.  We are by no means anti-Facebook people.  For now, this blog will be our method of communication.  Our hope is that this time un-plugged will give us the strength we need for the next couple months.  I guess you could compare it to a runner getting ready for a race.  You can't just wake up one morning and decide to run a marathon.  You have to prepare.  In the same way, we are preparing our marriage for the changes ahead.  We have to be a strong team.  So, goodbye for now Facebook.  We will miss you, but know it's for the best.