Liam Started Preschool!

It is so hard to believe that Liam is old enough to be in 3 year old Preschool.  He was so eager to go to school and meet new friends.  He was especially excited to learn new songs.  When I went in to wake him up, he was already sitting up in bed, which was a sign of his excitement.  He usually likes to sleep in.  We took the customary pictures and headed off to school.  Liam got to hang out in my classroom for a while and eat breakfast.  When it was time to head down to his room, Liam was excited to check everything out, but wanted me to stay with him.  He seemed a little nervous.  Once he found Legos, he was distracted enough for me to sneak out.  I checked on him a while later and he was doing well sitting on the carpet for story-time.  I checked on him a second time during snack time.  I had a Mommy moment when I saw this 'big boy' sitting at the table.  When did he grow from a baby to a boy?
Liam shared many stories from the day with us.  We had gone back and forth about sending Liam to Preschool, but I think for Liam, it was a good choice.

Liam wanted a green bag.  Grandma Kusch made this one for him.

Liam's teacher is Mrs. Gullidge

What My Children Have Taught Me About Faith

"Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." Hebrews 11:1

My children are examples of the grace of God.  Their lives have taught me and continue to teach me so much about faith.  Here are just some of the lessons they have taught me -

Christopher & Connor have taught me that God is sovereign and merciful.  I will never fully understand why my twins were not on this earth for very long.  However, I fully trust that God's plans are perfect.  In His mercy he allowed my sons to go straight from the arms of their parents into the arms of their Savior.  He gave them life and then granted them eternal life.  God also carried me through the valley of the shadow of death and granted me peace.  Only God is capable of mending a broken heart like mine.  Their short lives are a testament to what grace is all about.  We don't deserve His mercy, but He gives it to us because of Jesus.  One of my favorite C.S. Lewis quotes says -

“God has not been trying an experiment on my faith or love in order to find out their quality. He knew it already. It was I who didn’t."

Losing the twins left me knocking on the door of Heaven asking for answers.  God's answer was simple - “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” Psalm 46:10.  Faith is the assurance that despite our trials on earth, our eternal life is secure because of Christ!

Liam has taught me that God is unconditional love.  The moment Liam was placed in my arms, I would have died for him.  If that is how I feel about Liam, imagine how much more God feels for us.

"See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him." 1 John 3:1

I just love that God lavishes His love on us.  He loves us despite our disobedience and stubbornness.  He loves us to the cross and back.  Faith is knowing that God loves us beyond our comprehension! 

Lilly has taught me what it is to trust God.  I am still in awe that this little girl, who just met me three months ago, trusts me with her life.  She had only known me a couple hours when she longed for my affection and trusted me to take care of all her needs.  I am still amazed that she so fully trusts me with her well-being.  It would be so easy for her to hold back and be skeptical.  Sometimes I feel like Lilly just offers me her little heart and says, "Here Mom, this is just for you."  She knows without any prior proof that I am the one to care for her, that I will meet her needs, and that her heart is safe with me.  I am humbled by her trust in me.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6

  Faith is trusting God with all the details of life!

August Update

Well, to say life is busy is an understatement.  Having two children so close in age is a wonderful adventure, but it does make taking time to blog (or even shower for that matter) a bit of a challenge.  Would I change it?  Not for the world. Life is so full of rich, precious moments right now.  I just want to soak it all in.  So, here's a little bit of what we've been up to...

Lilly
Our little lady has found her independence and courage.  She came to us so weak and behind developmentally.  However, she is a determined little thing and sets to prove to us and herself that she can do anything her older brother does.  When we came home from China her assessment showed that she was developmentally where an 11 month old would be.  She was recently assessed again and she is now in the 15-18 month range (for physical development).  We are so proud of her progress.  She can run now, climb on things, she tries to jump, and loves to dance.  She loves to sing, but doesn't sing any recognizable tunes or words.  She makes her own little joyful noise.  She makes us laugh A LOT.  She can be so goofy sometimes.  She seems so happy!  When we lay her down at nap-time or bed-time she looks up at us with this big grin.  She understands us well and follows instructions.  She has been doing well with her therapists.  She is still enrolled in speech, occupational therapy, and physical therapy.  We're hoping to increase communication with her.  She gets so frustrated that she can't speak.  She can say Mama, but no other recognizable words.  So, we are working on sign language and picture boards.  We're hoping her surgery in September will help.
What's coming up for Lilly - Her second birthday is September 5th.  Her first surgery for her cleft palate is scheduled for September 12th.

Lilly knows how to work the camera on my phone - silly girl.

What a diva!  She shops in style.

Snuggling with Mommy is on the top of her list of favorite things to do.

Her hair is getting longer!

She loves dressing up for church.

goofy girl

Liam uses this container as an astronaut helmet, so naturally Lilly thinks she should wear it too.

Lilly loves water, which is a big deal!

Lilly loves to help clean.

Liam

Liam loves to build and make things.  He spends time making and perfecting things with legos, blocks, or playdough.  As always, he has an active imagination.  He turns ordinary things into adventures.  He is very affectionate.  He loves to give hugs and kisses to Mom and Lilly.  He also holds open doors for us and holds Lilly's hand.  He is a great big brother.  Liam loves books and could sit and listen to stories all day.  He is becoming so independent.  He is always trying to increase his vocabulary, which can be funny when he doesn't quite know what a word means.  If things don't go well, he says it's 'tragic'.  He also calls all Mom's baking beautiful.  Liam is a bit dramatic sometimes too.  You never have to guess how he's feeling. 

What's coming up for Liam - Liam starts 3 year old preschool in two weeks!  It's hard to believe he's old enough.  He will go to Ascension (the school Mom teaches at) on Tuesday and Thursday mornings.

Liam is a big helper!

Liam loves to bake and helps Mom whenever she makes goodies.

The only time Liam is quiet and still is when he is asleep.

One of Liam's creations - Wall-E

Liam had his first eye doctor appointment.  He did a great job and has excellent vision.

What a big helper!  Liam loves to push the little cart at the grocery store.

Liam went to the movie theater for the first time and saw Planes.

after movie snack

Liam picks flowers for his Mom and sister.

Lilly wanted to stop and rest on our walk, so Liam sat with her and kept her company.  He kept saying, "You can do it Lilly!"

We're just trying to keep up with these two amazing children, thanking God for all our blessings, and trusting that He will provide all that we need.

New URL

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Goodbye Grandpa

Today, my Grandpa, Raymond Letsch, went to be with Jesus.  He was a strong man of faith. He loved people and sharing his stories and the love of Jesus with everyone he met.  He was a great Grandfather.  I never doubted his pride in me or love for me.  Although his last several years were hard, Grandma was by his side until the end.  I have missed Grandpa since his alzheimer's became such an evident part of his life.  I rejoice that he is with his Savior, that his mind is clear, and his body is healed.  

Summer 2012

Thanksgiving 2007

Christmas 2008

Grandpa's 80th Birthday Party, 2010

November, 2008