Celtic Woman / Chloe Agnew - ''O Holy Night''

Happy Birthday Grandma!

Grandma & Grandpa (Christmas 2007)

December 24th is my Grandmother Letsch's birthday.  She is such an amazing woman.  She raised six children (five of which were boys), helped Grandpa through school and in various careers, and has devoted endless hours to her family.  She is wonderful at baking.  One of my fondest memories is cooking with her in the kitchen.  To this day I still love making sugar cookies with her.  She is a devoted Vikings fan and watches every game she possibly can.  Being the baby of her family, she has always had a bit of a temper.    

Her strongest attribute is her faith.  She has had unwavering faith throughout her life and has passed that legacy on to her family.  She is a true prayer warrior.  When I need advice or just a word of encouragement, she always offers it without judgment.  I love her very much and am very thankful to have her as the matriarch of our family.  

four generations (me pregnant with the twins, my Mom, and Grandma) - May 2008

Christmas Letter

Dear Family & Friends,

Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory… in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21

            We pray that you are encouraged this Christmas season and reminded that God can do extraordinary things in ordinary situations.  God picked a lowly stable for the moment history changed forever and Christ dwelt with us.  He uses us, in spite of our sinful nature and lack of faithfulness, to carry out His purpose and plan.  Thanks to God, His plans are not our plans and His ways are not our ways.

            As we prepared to write this year’s letter we looked back over the letters we have written the past six years.  We are amazed at the journey God has carried us through, and how He continually provides us with the grace, patience, and strength we need for every circumstance.  This year has been a year of celebration and joy.

            We began 2010 once again waiting to learn God’s plan and trusting His timing.  Tiffany continued teaching Kindergarten at Holy Cross Lutheran School and worked two nights a week at Sylvan Learning Center.  She also took another class towards her Masters in Special Education and sold Mary Kay.  Dave continued working at Thrivent Financial for Lutherans.  Dave was also busy as the treasurer of the homeowners association, an usher and communion assistant at church, and on various committees at church.

            In March we learned that we were selected to proceed with our South Korean adoption through Bethany Christian Services.  We had been on a waiting list since April of 2009, when we began the adoption process.  Bethany is the only adoption agency currently taking couples for the South Korea program, and they only accept a dozen couples a year.  We felt that because we were selected as one of the few couples, God wanted us to continue with that adoption.  However, we could not be on two adoption lists at once.  We were on a domestic list with Lutheran Social Services since July 2009.  We talked to our social worker at Lutheran Social Services about our options.  We started attending meetings and working on homework for the Korea program, but hadn’t officially sent in our formal application.  We had the application all ready to mail in, but decided to wait until after Spring Break to mail it in.  We prayed that God would make His will clear for us.

            On Spring Break we went to Disney World.   It was a magical trip.  It is always so much fun to travel with Tiffany’s family.  While at the Magic Kingdom on April 9^th Tiffany received a phone call from Susie, our social worker with Lutheran Social Services.  She said they had received a “cold call” from a birthmother, she had picked us, and we had a son waiting for us at the hospital.  We tried to change our flight home, but were unable to do so.  We rented a car and drove eighteen hours through the night to try and get home in time for Liam to be discharged from the hospital.  Our social worker actually brought Liam to the house for us.  We would have had to drive another six hours once we were home to get to the hospital and back and Liam would have been waiting past his discharge time.  On April 10^th Liam arrived at our house.  It still amazes us how instantly we fell in love with him.  Once we held him we knew exactly what God’s plan had been all along.  Liam is such a miracle and an answer to prayer.  Life has been a whirlwind of milestones and memories since Liam’s arrival and we cherish every moment of it.  He is a big, strong boy.  He is consistently in the 90^th percentile for weight and height.  We, of course, think he is brilliant.  He has such a sweet and easy disposition.  He is also “all boy” and is very curious and energetic, especially now that he is mobile.  Tiffany is now officially a stay-at-home mom.  She is, however, still working on her Masters, occasionally substitutes, and sells Mary Kay.

            May was a great month.  On May 23^rd Liam was adopted as God’s son through baptism.  It was a great celebration and one we looked forward to for a long time.  On May 29^th we celebrated our sixth wedding anniversary and the twelfth year we have been together.

            In July Tiffany once again taught dance at Concordia High School’s drama camp.

            In September Dave organized a Kids Against Hunger event through Thrivent.  He raised enough funds, and recruited volunteers to package nearly 50,000 meals.  The meals were distributed in the community and across the world to starving children.  

            On November 19^th, we finalized Liam’s adoption.  November is National Adoption Awareness month so the court scheduled several adoptions for the same day.  Twenty other families finalized their adoptions that day.  We had a great time celebrating Liam’s Gotcha Day as our forever son.            

            Now we look forward to our first Christmas as a family of three and have a better understanding of how Mary pondered things and stored them in her heart.  We too are tucking many memories away in our hearts.  We still think of Christopher and Connor often, especially this time of year.  However, we think of them with joy, thank God we had the opportunity to be their parents, and look forward to our family reunion in heaven.  The journey we have taken has prepared us to be the kind of parents that Liam needs.  Adoption has changed our lives in so many ways and is such a great example of God’s love for each one of us.  The moment we met Liam, he stole our hearts and we would have died for him.  If we can have this kind of unconditional love, how much more does our Savior love us?

For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in His sight. In love, He  predestined us for adoption to sonship  through Jesus Christ, in accordance with His pleasure and will— to the praise of His glorious grace, which He has freely given us in the One He loves. Ephesians 1:4-6

            We wish you a very merry Christmas and happy New Year.  We pray that God blesses you in unfathomable ways in 2011.

With Love,

David, Tiffany & Liam Herman

One Child - The Nativity

Liam's Seventh Month

Photo album personalized with Smilebox

Christmas Cards

I am very excited to send out Christmas cards this year as a family of three (four if you count Daisy).  My sister-in-law Anna has agreed to take our family photo this weekend, while we visit for Thanksgiving.  She has a nice camera and has taken great pictures in the past.  We have outfits all picked out.  I am planning on using Shutterfly: http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-photo-cards.  I used them for Liam's birth announcements and his Gotcha Party Invitations: http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/birthday-invitations.  Both projects turned out to be really cute.  For Father's day I made custom mugs with Liam's baptism picture: http://www.shutterfly.com/photo-gifts/photo-mugs.  I enjoy receiving Christmas cards with pictures.  It helps me document how families have changed and expanded.  It is fun to look back at the cards from past years.

Shutterfly always has great deals too.  Right now bloggers get 50 free holiday cards! You can sign up here: http://bit.ly/sfly2010.  There are so many to choose from, and they are so cute.  Here are a few I like...

At Last!

We have so much to be thankful for.  Today we finalized Liam's adoption and he legally became our son. Thank you for your prayers throughout our journey, for your support, and for those who donated financially to Liam’s adoption.  We could not have taken this journey without you.  Thank you especially for loving Liam and accepting him unconditionally as part of our family.

We have learned so much over the past four and a half years.  Some of the lessons were not ones we desired to learn, but we are so thankful that God has polished our rough edges and has been gracious to us, despite our lack of faith at times and our stubbornness to follow our own plan rather than His.  Last Easter, as I sat by the grave of our oldest sons, I said a simple prayer, “God if it doesn’t get better than this, then I am done.”  I was so tired.  I rejoiced that my two little lambs were celebrating with their Savior, but I didn’t get what God was waiting for.  Less than a week later I got my answer.  And it seemed as though God was saying, “See, for the last nine months I have been protecting this precious one and orchestrating the plans I have for your family.” 

This week as I have been reflecting on all God has done, a couple verses have been brought to my attention.  The first is Jeremiah 29:11-12, which was read at our wedding - For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.  This verse has brought us comfort and has proven itself to be true time and time again.  The second is Esther 4:14 - 
And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?  I am not sure how God will use our sorrow, pain, and joy.  But I do know that God brought us through all our pain for such a time as this.  He planned for Liam to be our son all along and it is a perfect fit.

I have included the letter we wrote to Liam and put in his scrapbook along with the letter that we wrote to Liam's birthmother.

Dear Sweet Liam,

            Today you have legally become our son.  It is the best day of our lives!  We thank God every day for letting us be your parents.  You exceed all our expectations and have all the qualities that we wanted in a son.  You are our Samuel, our miracle, and our joy.  We hope you always know how much we love you and how we have loved being your parents.  You fill our lives with silly, loving, and dear moments.  We are very proud of you.  We pray that God will give us the wisdom, discernment, and courage to be the kind of parents you deserve, and that you never doubt our love for you.

            Your life will be blessed, but at times it will be hard.  Liam, you have a God that loves you even more than we do.  He loves you so much that he died so you can spend eternity in heaven.  Your older brothers, Christopher and Connor, are already there.  Our greatest goal as your parents is to help you realize God’s love for you, and encourage your faith, so we can all join your brothers someday.  God has already begun a great story with your life.  We know He will do great things through you and we can’t wait to see what those things are.

            Today, we want you to know that your birthmother loved you so much to give you life and give you to us.  We will always be thankful for her and will continue to pray for her.  She is an important part of your journey.

            Liam, today we have to so much to be thankful for!  Thank you for being our son and for filling our hearts the way only you can.

We love you,

Mom & Dad

Dear (Birthmother),

           

      We understand and appreciate that you do not desire contact and we realize that you may never read this letter.  However, we feel compelled to write this as much for our benefit as yours.  We want to express to you our deepest gratitude.  We are so thankful for you.  You have given us the best gift anyone could have ever given us.  Thank you for giving this amazing, brilliant, and beautiful boy life.  Thank you for choosing us and giving us the opportunity to be parents.  You have made our greatest dream a reality.  Having a son has completely changed our lives for the better.  We continually keep you in our prayers.  We pray that God will bless you and that you will have peace that you made the right decision.  As our son grows we will tell him how much you loved him and that you wanted the best for him.  We promise you that we will provide him with the best life possible.  We will shower him with love and encourage his faith. 

Our most heartfelt thanks,

David & Tiffany